15 questions about
spicy questions
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's something you've always wanted to try in bed but haven't brought up yet?"
- 2
"What does the perfect intimate evening look like to you — from start to finish?"
- 3
"Is there a fantasy you have that you've never told me about?"
- 4
"What's something I do that drives you wild that I might not realise?"
- 5
"Where do you most like to be touched that I don't go to enough?"
- 6
"What's a location or setting that you find unexpectedly exciting?"
- 7
"Is there something we used to do that you'd love to bring back?"
- 8
"What time of day do you feel most desire — and does that match when we're usually together?"
- 9
"What's something you'd love me to initiate more?"
- 10
"Is there something you've seen or read that sparked an idea you'd want to explore together?"
- 11
"What makes you feel most confident and attractive?"
- 12
"What's one word that describes what you want more of in our physical relationship?"
- 13
"Is there a boundary we've never discussed that you think we should?"
- 14
"What's something that builds anticipation for you — what's your version of foreplay?"
- 15
"If you could design our ideal night together with no inhibitions, what would it look like?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.