15 questions about
bucket list
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's the one travel experience you most want to have before you die?"
- 2
"Is there something you've always wanted to try but never given yourself permission?"
- 3
"What's a skill or craft you want to genuinely master?"
- 4
"Is there a place you want to live, even temporarily?"
- 5
"What's a physical challenge or adventure you want to complete?"
- 6
"What cultural experience — performance, festival, ritual — is on your list?"
- 7
"What's something you want to create or make in your lifetime?"
- 8
"What experience do you want to share with me that we haven't had yet?"
- 9
"What's something on your list that would take genuine courage?"
- 10
"What's a meal you want to eat in the place it was invented?"
- 11
"Is there a pilgrimage, walk, or journey you want to make?"
- 12
"What's something on your list that's purely for you — not about anyone else?"
- 13
"Which bucket list item should we do next year?"
- 14
"What would you do with a completely free month?"
- 15
"What's the experience you'd regret never having most?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.