15 questions about
intimacy & connection
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"When do you feel closest to me?"
- 2
"What's something that creates distance between us that you wish we talked about more?"
- 3
"What makes you feel truly safe with me?"
- 4
"What does emotional intimacy mean to you?"
- 5
"When do you feel most connected to me — what are we doing?"
- 6
"Is there a part of yourself you haven't fully let me see yet?"
- 7
"What makes you want to pull away, and what brings you back?"
- 8
"What's a conversation we should have had by now but haven't?"
- 9
"What does physical closeness mean to you beyond sex?"
- 10
"When you're struggling, what do you most need from me?"
- 11
"Is there something about your inner world you'd like me to understand better?"
- 12
"What's the most connected you've ever felt to me in a single moment?"
- 13
"What breaks the feeling of connection for you most quickly?"
- 14
"What would it feel like if our connection deepened from where it is now?"
- 15
"What do you need from me to feel fully known?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.