15 questions about
growing together
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"In what ways has being with me changed you?"
- 2
"What have you learned about yourself through loving me?"
- 3
"What quality of mine have you absorbed a little of?"
- 4
"How have we grown as a couple since we started?"
- 5
"What's something we navigate now that we couldn't have at the beginning?"
- 6
"What's the most important thing our relationship has taught you?"
- 7
"What has loving me required of you?"
- 8
"What's something you've become because of us?"
- 9
"How have you grown as a person because of our relationship?"
- 10
"What do you think I'd say has changed most about you?"
- 11
"What's something we've built together that you're proud of?"
- 12
"What's a way we've both grown in the same direction?"
- 13
"What chapter of your growth are you most grateful to have shared with me?"
- 14
"What's something about who you are now that our relationship made possible?"
- 15
"How has being loved by me changed how you see yourself?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.