15 questions about
falling in love
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What was your very first impression of me?"
- 2
"When did you first think 'this could be something'?"
- 3
"Was there a specific moment you knew you were falling in love with me?"
- 4
"What were you most nervous about when we first started seeing each other?"
- 5
"What did you hope I was like before you really got to know me?"
- 6
"What's the first thing you noticed about me physically?"
- 7
"Was there a moment you almost talked yourself out of us?"
- 8
"What did you tell your friends about me early on?"
- 9
"What's the most romantic thing that happened during the early days of our relationship?"
- 10
"What did you think about me after our very first date?"
- 11
"When did you first feel safe with me?"
- 12
"Was there a moment when you realised I was different from others you'd dated?"
- 13
"What were you most surprised to discover about me as you got to know me?"
- 14
"What's something about falling in love with me that you didn't expect?"
- 15
"If you had to describe those early months in one word, what would it be?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.