15 questions about
where we live
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you choose?"
- 2
"What does your ideal home look like and feel like?"
- 3
"How important is being close to family?"
- 4
"Do you prefer city life, suburban, or rural?"
- 5
"What's the thing about where we live now that you love most?"
- 6
"What's the thing about where we live now that you'd most want to change?"
- 7
"Have you ever thought seriously about moving abroad?"
- 8
"What would pull you away from somewhere you love?"
- 9
"What climate do you actually want to live in?"
- 10
"What's non-negotiable for you in a home?"
- 11
"How important is space to your wellbeing?"
- 12
"Do you want a garden? A view? A particular kind of light?"
- 13
"If we could move anywhere together next year, where would you say?"
- 14
"What does neighbourhood mean to you — roots or freedom?"
- 15
"What would home feel like at its most perfect?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.