15 questions about
getting to know you
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's something about your childhood that still shapes you today?"
- 2
"What did you want to be when you grew up — and how do you feel about that now?"
- 3
"What's a belief you hold that most people in your life don't share?"
- 4
"What's the most interesting thing about you that rarely comes up in conversation?"
- 5
"If you could go back and relive one year of your life, which would it be and why?"
- 6
"What's something you've changed your mind about completely in the last five years?"
- 7
"What's a skill you have that surprises people?"
- 8
"What's the most important thing you've ever learned, and who taught it to you?"
- 9
"What do you think your younger self would think of the person you've become?"
- 10
"What's one thing you wish people understood about you without you having to explain it?"
- 11
"What does a perfect ordinary Tuesday look like for you?"
- 12
"What are you most proud of that has nothing to do with work?"
- 13
"What's something you've never told anyone that you'd be willing to share now?"
- 14
"What do you think is your most underrated quality?"
- 15
"When do you feel most like yourself?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.