15 questions about
role models & heroes
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"Who's the person who has most influenced who you are?"
- 2
"Is there a historical figure you deeply admire?"
- 3
"Who did you look up to as a child?"
- 4
"Is there a fictional character who shaped your values?"
- 5
"Who in your life right now do you admire most?"
- 6
"What is it about that person that you want to be like?"
- 7
"Is there someone you used to admire who disappointed you?"
- 8
"What do you want to be for someone else?"
- 9
"What quality in a person makes you admire them most?"
- 10
"Is there someone doing work in the world that inspires you?"
- 11
"What leader — past or present — do you most respect?"
- 12
"Who would you most want to have dinner with, living or dead?"
- 13
"What does it mean to you to be someone worth looking up to?"
- 14
"Who in your life has been quietly influential without knowing it?"
- 15
"What creative person's life do you find most worth studying?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.