15 questions about
childhood memories
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's your earliest memory?"
- 2
"What did your home smell like growing up?"
- 3
"Who was your closest friend as a child, and what happened to them?"
- 4
"What's a meal from childhood that you still think about?"
- 5
"What's a toy or object from childhood that meant everything to you?"
- 6
"What's the best birthday you remember as a kid?"
- 7
"What was your bedroom like when you were ten?"
- 8
"Who was the adult outside your family who influenced you most?"
- 9
"What's a rule from your childhood home you've kept, and one you've completely abandoned?"
- 10
"What were you afraid of as a child?"
- 11
"What's a memory with your mother that defines her for you?"
- 12
"What's a memory with your father that defines him for you?"
- 13
"What do you wish you could go back and tell your ten-year-old self?"
- 14
"What's something you did as a child that you'd love to do again?"
- 15
"What did you dream about before you went to sleep as a kid?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.