15 questions about
values & beliefs
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's the one value you would never compromise, no matter the circumstances?"
- 2
"What do you believe about luck versus effort in determining how a life goes?"
- 3
"Is there a political or social issue you've changed your position on? What shifted you?"
- 4
"What do you think makes a good person?"
- 5
"Do you believe in fate, free will, or something in between?"
- 6
"What does justice mean to you in real, practical terms?"
- 7
"What's the most important thing a parent can give a child?"
- 8
"What would you sacrifice for what you believe in?"
- 9
"Where do you think meaning in life actually comes from?"
- 10
"What do you believe happens after we die?"
- 11
"What's the most courageous thing a person can do?"
- 12
"What are you unwilling to forgive?"
- 13
"How much does integrity guide your daily decisions?"
- 14
"What do you owe strangers?"
- 15
"What belief do you hold that took the longest to form?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.