15 questions about
grief & loss
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's the biggest loss you've experienced, and how are you now with it?"
- 2
"Is there something you're still grieving that you don't talk about?"
- 3
"What does grief feel like for you — how does your body and mind carry it?"
- 4
"What helped you most during the hardest loss of your life?"
- 5
"What do you wish people had done differently when you were grieving?"
- 6
"Is there someone who has died whose absence you still feel every day?"
- 7
"What's something you never got to say to someone before they were gone?"
- 8
"How do you want to be supported when you're going through loss?"
- 9
"What has loss taught you about how you want to live?"
- 10
"What's something you've lost that wasn't a person — a version of yourself, a dream?"
- 11
"How do you think about your own death?"
- 12
"What's helped you come back after the hardest times?"
- 13
"What's something loss has made you value that you might have taken for granted?"
- 14
"Is there a grief from your past that still affects how you show up today?"
- 15
"What would you want the people who love you to know about how you grieve?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.