15 questions about
deep connection
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What do you most want to be understood about?"
- 2
"What's something you've never felt fully safe saying to anyone?"
- 3
"What's the most honest thing you could tell me about yourself right now?"
- 4
"What do you need from me that you've never quite asked for?"
- 5
"What do you see in me that you think I don't fully see in myself?"
- 6
"When do you feel most alone — even when you're not?"
- 7
"What would you say to me if you knew I wouldn't react?"
- 8
"What's the part of you that loves most deeply?"
- 9
"What do you most want for our relationship — not what you think you should want?"
- 10
"What's one thing you'd want me to know about you that I don't yet?"
- 11
"What does being truly loved feel like — versus being just appreciated?"
- 12
"What's the most tender thing about you?"
- 13
"What do you think we still have to discover together?"
- 14
"What would you want me to say to you right now?"
- 15
"What's a version of yourself that almost came into being but didn't?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.