15 questions about
loneliness
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"Do you ever feel lonely — and what does that feel like?"
- 2
"When do you feel most lonely, even when you're not alone?"
- 3
"Is there something in your life right now that you feel you carry alone?"
- 4
"What does loneliness feel like in your body?"
- 5
"Have you ever felt lonely in our relationship?"
- 6
"What helps when you're lonely?"
- 7
"What makes you feel most connected and not alone?"
- 8
"Is there someone in your life you feel truly known by?"
- 9
"What do you think is at the root of loneliness?"
- 10
"Have you felt lonely in a crowd?"
- 11
"What's something you feel you can't share with anyone — including me?"
- 12
"What's the most alone you've ever felt?"
- 13
"What would it mean to feel less lonely?"
- 14
"What do you need from me to feel less alone?"
- 15
"What does being truly known by someone feel like?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.