Getting to Know Each Other

Couples Questions:
Personality & Quirks

The strange, specific, wonderfully weird things that make you exactly who you are. These questions celebrate individuality.

💬 15 questions♥ For couples✔ Take turns answering✔ No wrong answers
📵Put the phones away
🔄Take turns answering
👂Listen without judgement
📱Log your answers in the app

15 questions about
personality & quirks

Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.

  1. 1

    "What's a habit you have that you know is a little strange but can't seem to stop?"

  2. 2

    "What's your completely irrational pet peeve?"

  3. 3

    "What do you do when no one is watching?"

  4. 4

    "What's a strong opinion you have about something most people consider unimportant?"

  5. 5

    "What's your most embarrassing guilty pleasure?"

  6. 6

    "What is something you are irrationally particular about?"

  7. 7

    "If your life were a film, what genre would it be?"

  8. 8

    "What's your relationship with being early, on time, or late?"

  9. 9

    "What's something most people enjoy that you genuinely don't?"

  10. 10

    "What's a word or phrase you use too much?"

  11. 11

    "What food combination do you love that others find bizarre?"

  12. 12

    "What's a sound that makes you immediately calm?"

  13. 13

    "If you were a weather pattern, what would you be?"

  14. 14

    "What's your signature move at a party — social butterfly, wall, or something else?"

  15. 15

    "What's a smell that takes you somewhere specific?"

How to use these
conversation starters

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Over dinner

Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.

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On a long drive

No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.

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Before sleep

One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.

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On a walk

Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.

Sunday morning

Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.

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In the app

Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.

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