15 questions about
money & finances
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What does financial security feel like to you — not a number, a feeling?"
- 2
"What's your earliest memory of money, and how did it shape you?"
- 3
"Are you a spender or a saver by nature?"
- 4
"What would you do with a sudden windfall?"
- 5
"What's something you spend money on without hesitation?"
- 6
"What's something you find it hard to spend money on?"
- 7
"How do you feel about debt?"
- 8
"What's your financial goal for the next five years?"
- 9
"How do you feel about how we handle money together?"
- 10
"Is there something financial you're worried about that you don't talk about?"
- 11
"What does 'enough' mean to you financially?"
- 12
"What would you sacrifice financially to gain something else you value?"
- 13
"What's the most important thing money can buy — genuinely?"
- 14
"What's your relationship between money and self-worth?"
- 15
"What financial conversation are we avoiding?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.