15 questions about
politics & society
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's the political or social issue you care most about?"
- 2
"Is there a cause you feel called to contribute to?"
- 3
"What do you think is the biggest problem in the world right now?"
- 4
"How politically engaged are you — and is that the right amount?"
- 5
"What's something you believed politically that you've changed your mind about?"
- 6
"What does privilege mean to you, and how do you think about your own?"
- 7
"What's a social issue where you hold an unpopular opinion?"
- 8
"What do you think the world will look like in fifty years?"
- 9
"What makes you most hopeful about society?"
- 10
"What makes you most worried?"
- 11
"What do you think your responsibility to the world is?"
- 12
"What issue do you think is massively under-discussed?"
- 13
"What's something about the society we live in that you want to change?"
- 14
"How do you feel about the state of democracy?"
- 15
"What does it mean to you to be a good citizen?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.