15 questions about
friendship & social life
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"Who is your closest friend outside our relationship, and what makes that friendship work?"
- 2
"What do you most value in a friendship?"
- 3
"Is there a friendship you've let drift that you wish you'd maintained?"
- 4
"How important is having a social life outside of us?"
- 5
"Do you feel like you have enough people who really know you?"
- 6
"What kind of friend are you — and how do you feel about that?"
- 7
"Is there someone in your life you'd like to be closer to?"
- 8
"What's the most important friendship of your life?"
- 9
"How much social energy do you have?"
- 10
"What's something a friend has done for you that you'll never forget?"
- 11
"Is there a friendship that has ended that still affects you?"
- 12
"What does community mean to you, and do you feel like you have it?"
- 13
"Do you ever feel lonely — even when you're not alone?"
- 14
"What would your closest friends say about what kind of partner you are?"
- 15
"What kind of social life do you want in five years?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.