15 questions about
health & body
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"How would you describe your relationship with your body right now?"
- 2
"What does taking care of yourself mean to you in practice?"
- 3
"Is there something about your health you're avoiding that you know you should address?"
- 4
"What's your relationship with exercise — do you love it, hate it, or tolerate it?"
- 5
"How do you feel about how your body has changed over time?"
- 6
"What does rest mean to you — are you good at it?"
- 7
"What's something you do for your physical health that you're proud of?"
- 8
"What's something you know you should do for your health but don't?"
- 9
"How does your physical wellbeing affect your mood and mental health?"
- 10
"What does health mean to you beyond the absence of illness?"
- 11
"Is there a health concern that's on your mind that you haven't shared?"
- 12
"How do you want to feel in your body in ten years?"
- 13
"What's something about your health you'd want me to understand?"
- 14
"What does pleasure in your body feel like — not just sexual, but physical joy?"
- 15
"How important is physical fitness to you — honestly?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.