15 questions about
ageing & growing older
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"How do you feel about getting older?"
- 2
"What do you think will be better about your life in your sixties than it is now?"
- 3
"What do you worry about losing as you age?"
- 4
"What does your older self look like in your imagination?"
- 5
"Is there something you want to do while you still can that you haven't prioritised?"
- 6
"How do you feel about your body changing over time?"
- 7
"What do you admire about people who age well?"
- 8
"How do you feel about ageing in relation to our relationship?"
- 9
"What does wisdom mean to you — do you feel you have any?"
- 10
"What's something your parents did as they aged that you want to emulate?"
- 11
"What does late life look like in your imagination — alone, with people, doing what?"
- 12
"What would it mean to you to age with dignity?"
- 13
"What does ageing gracefully actually mean?"
- 14
"What do you want to still be doing when you're eighty?"
- 15
"What does growing old together mean to you?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.