15 questions about
attraction & desire
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What were you most physically attracted to about me?"
- 2
"What attracted you to me that had nothing to do with appearance?"
- 3
"What made you want to keep seeing me?"
- 4
"Has what attracts you to me changed over time?"
- 5
"What do I do that you find most attractive today?"
- 6
"Is there something unexpected you find attractive about me?"
- 7
"What's the most attractive version of me to you?"
- 8
"What does attraction feel like for you — is it instant or slow?"
- 9
"What's something about me that becomes more attractive the better you know me?"
- 10
"What's the most attractive thing about me on a difficult day?"
- 11
"What quality in me do you find attractive but might not expect to?"
- 12
"What's the most attractive thing I've ever said or done?"
- 13
"What does desire feel like for you in a long relationship?"
- 14
"What would make you feel more desired this week?"
- 15
"What does it mean to you to feel truly wanted?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.