15 questions about
sex & physical intimacy
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What makes you feel most desired by me?"
- 2
"Is there something you'd like more of in our physical relationship?"
- 3
"What does sexual intimacy mean to you beyond the physical act?"
- 4
"What makes you feel safe enough to be fully present physically?"
- 5
"Is there something you've wanted to explore that you haven't brought up?"
- 6
"What do you find most attractive about me — and has that changed?"
- 7
"What does desire feel like for you — how does it arrive?"
- 8
"What's something that gets in the way of intimacy between us?"
- 9
"How important is sex to you in a relationship — really?"
- 10
"What would make our physical relationship feel more connected?"
- 11
"Is there something about how we are physically together that you love?"
- 12
"What does it mean to you to feel truly wanted?"
- 13
"Is there a disconnect between what you want and what you ask for?"
- 14
"What's something I could do that would make you feel more desired?"
- 15
"What does intimacy mean to you at its best?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.