15 questions about
jealousy & security
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"Do you ever feel jealous in our relationship, and what triggers it?"
- 2
"What makes you feel insecure in our relationship?"
- 3
"What does jealousy feel like for you — where do you feel it?"
- 4
"What does it mean to you when I give attention to others?"
- 5
"Is there something I do that triggers insecurity in you?"
- 6
"What does insecurity ask of you in our relationship?"
- 7
"What makes you feel secure in our relationship?"
- 8
"Is there something about your past that makes certain things harder?"
- 9
"What would help you feel more secure?"
- 10
"What's the difference between jealousy as information and jealousy as a habit?"
- 11
"Do you trust me completely — and if not, what's in the way?"
- 12
"What's something you worry about in terms of our relationship?"
- 13
"What can I do to make you feel more secure?"
- 14
"Have you ever held something back because of jealousy?"
- 15
"What does security in love feel like for you?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.