Date Night

Couples Questions:
If You Could Ask Me Anything

Permission granted. These questions open the space for the question each of you has been quietly holding.

💬 15 questions♥ For couples✔ Take turns answering✔ No wrong answers
📵Put the phones away
🔄Take turns answering
👂Listen without judgement
📱Log your answers in the app

15 questions about
if you could ask me anything

Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.

  1. 1

    "If you could ask me one question and get a completely honest answer, what would it be?"

  2. 2

    "Is there something about me you've been curious about but felt you couldn't ask?"

  3. 3

    "What do you most want to understand about me that you don't yet?"

  4. 4

    "Is there something you've wanted to tell me but weren't sure how to start?"

  5. 5

    "What would you ask me if you knew I wouldn't get defensive?"

  6. 6

    "What's a question you've had about our future that you've held back?"

  7. 7

    "What's something you'd love me to ask you?"

  8. 8

    "Is there a topic you wish we talked about more freely?"

  9. 9

    "What's something you want permission to say?"

  10. 10

    "What's something you're curious about that feels too personal to ask?"

  11. 11

    "Is there something you've wondered about how I see us?"

  12. 12

    "What's a question about our relationship you've never voiced?"

  13. 13

    "What would you want to know about me that I haven't offered?"

  14. 14

    "What question would crack us open in the best possible way?"

  15. 15

    "If tonight could be the most honest conversation we've ever had, what would you want to cover?"

How to use these
conversation starters

🍷

Over dinner

Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.

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On a long drive

No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.

🛏️

Before sleep

One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.

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On a walk

Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.

Sunday morning

Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.

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In the app

Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.

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going every day.

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