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Couples Questions:
This or That

Quick-fire and surprisingly revealing. Pick a side — then explain why.

💬 15 questions♥ For couples✔ Take turns answering✔ No wrong answers
📵Put the phones away
🔄Take turns answering
👂Listen without judgement
📱Log your answers in the app

15 questions about
this or that

Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.

  1. 1

    "Dogs or cats — and why?"

  2. 2

    "Early bird or night owl?"

  3. 3

    "City break or wilderness adventure?"

  4. 4

    "Cook at home or eat out?"

  5. 5

    "Books or podcasts?"

  6. 6

    "Hot summer or cold winter?"

  7. 7

    "Spontaneous or planned?"

  8. 8

    "Ocean or mountains?"

  9. 9

    "Introvert evening in or extrovert night out?"

  10. 10

    "Minimalist or maximalist home?"

  11. 11

    "Logic or intuition when making decisions?"

  12. 12

    "Quality or quantity — when it comes to social life?"

  13. 13

    "Past or future — which do you live in more?"

  14. 14

    "Head or heart?"

  15. 15

    "The journey or the destination?"

How to use these
conversation starters

🍷

Over dinner

Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.

🚗

On a long drive

No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.

🛏️

Before sleep

One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.

🚶

On a walk

Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.

Sunday morning

Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.

📱

In the app

Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.

♥ Relationship App: Love Story

Keep the conversation
going every day.

Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.

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💬 Daily prompts
💌 Love notes
😊 Mood check-ins
📓 Shared journal

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