15 questions about
unpopular opinions
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's a popular film, show, or book you think is overrated?"
- 2
"What's a food everyone loves that you genuinely don't like?"
- 3
"What's a social norm you think is outdated or pointless?"
- 4
"What's a commonly held belief you think is just wrong?"
- 5
"What's something people spend a lot of money on that you think is a waste?"
- 6
"What's a career or lifestyle people admire that you privately don't?"
- 7
"What's a cultural institution — marriage, university, religion — you have complicated feelings about?"
- 8
"What's a type of music everyone seems to like that leaves you cold?"
- 9
"What's a piece of life advice people give that you think is bad advice?"
- 10
"What's a popular holiday destination you don't understand the appeal of?"
- 11
"What's something considered rude that you think is actually fine?"
- 12
"What's something considered polite that you secretly find annoying?"
- 13
"What's a widely praised personality trait you find overrated?"
- 14
"What's something society values that you think matters very little?"
- 15
"What's a hot take you have that you'd defend publicly?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.