15 questions about
if we could…
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"If we could live anywhere together for a year, where would we go?"
- 2
"If we could switch jobs for a week, what would you do with mine?"
- 3
"If we could meet one couple we admire, who would it be and why?"
- 4
"If we had no financial constraints for one year, how would we spend it?"
- 5
"If we could go back to any moment in our relationship, which would you choose?"
- 6
"If we could fast-forward five years, what do you hope we see?"
- 7
"If we could redo our first date, where would we go?"
- 8
"If we could design the perfect home together, what would it look like?"
- 9
"If we could add one rule to our relationship, what would it be?"
- 10
"If we could travel back to when we first met, what would you say?"
- 11
"If we could spend one week doing only things we love, what would the schedule look like?"
- 12
"If we could remove one source of stress from our life, what would you choose?"
- 13
"If we could spend a year being students again, what would we study?"
- 14
"If we could adopt any pet with no practical barriers, what would we get?"
- 15
"If we could witness any historical moment together, which would you pick?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.