15 questions about
books & stories
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's a book that genuinely changed something in you?"
- 2
"What's a story — book, film, series — you return to when you need comfort?"
- 3
"Is there a character from fiction that you feel deeply connected to?"
- 4
"What's a story you wish more people knew about?"
- 5
"What kind of books do you read that might surprise people?"
- 6
"What's a book you've recommended more than any other?"
- 7
"What's a story you experienced at exactly the right moment in your life?"
- 8
"What genre do you love that you might be embarrassed to admit?"
- 9
"Is there a book you've never finished but feel you should?"
- 10
"What's the last book that genuinely moved you?"
- 11
"If your life were a book, who would write it?"
- 12
"What's a book you'd want us to read at the same time?"
- 13
"What's a story that taught you something about love?"
- 14
"Is there a film or book that represents how you see relationships?"
- 15
"What's something you've read that you wish I had too?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.