15 questions about
art, music & culture
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's a piece of music that genuinely moves you every time?"
- 2
"Is there a work of art — painting, photograph, film — that changed how you see things?"
- 3
"What kind of music do you listen to when you need to process something?"
- 4
"What's a film that you think everyone should see?"
- 5
"What artist, writer, or musician do you feel an inexplicable connection to?"
- 6
"What's a cultural experience — concert, exhibition, performance — that stayed with you?"
- 7
"What's a book that shaped who you are?"
- 8
"Is there a creative work you've returned to multiple times?"
- 9
"What do you think art is for?"
- 10
"What's something aesthetic — a style, a sound, a look — that defines your taste?"
- 11
"What's the last thing you experienced that was genuinely beautiful?"
- 12
"What kind of art do you find most challenging or uncomfortable?"
- 13
"What's something you've heard or seen that you can't get out of your head?"
- 14
"What creative work would you make if you could?"
- 15
"What gallery, museum, or cultural space do you love?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.