15 questions about
happiness & joy
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What does happiness feel like for you — where do you feel it in your body?"
- 2
"What's something in your daily life that reliably brings you joy?"
- 3
"Are you happy right now — and what would make you more so?"
- 4
"What's the difference between happiness and contentment for you?"
- 5
"When were you last genuinely, fully happy?"
- 6
"What makes your kind of happiness different from others'?"
- 7
"What does joy look like on an ordinary Tuesday?"
- 8
"What's something that makes you happiest that costs nothing?"
- 9
"What creates the conditions for happiness for you?"
- 10
"What's something that brings you joy that seems small but isn't?"
- 11
"How much does external circumstance affect your happiness versus internal state?"
- 12
"What would you need to change about your life to be happier?"
- 13
"What's the happiest you've ever been?"
- 14
"Is there something in your life that used to make you happy but no longer does?"
- 15
"What do you do that makes you feel most alive?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.