15 questions about
mortality & legacy
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"How often do you think about death — yours or others'?"
- 2
"What do you want to be remembered for?"
- 3
"What would you want said about you at your funeral?"
- 4
"Is there something you want to do before you die that you haven't done?"
- 5
"What would it mean to you to have lived well?"
- 6
"What's the most important thing you want to leave behind?"
- 7
"Has the death of someone you loved changed how you live?"
- 8
"Do you fear death, and what specifically is frightening about it?"
- 9
"What would you regret most if you found out you had a year to live?"
- 10
"Is there a conversation you'd want to have if you knew your time was limited?"
- 11
"What does a good death look like — where, how, with whom?"
- 12
"How do you want to be remembered by me, specifically?"
- 13
"What does your life mean right now — and is that enough?"
- 14
"What do you want your last ordinary day to look like?"
- 15
"What does living well mean to you in practical terms?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.