15 questions about
boundaries
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's a boundary you have that I should understand better?"
- 2
"Is there something you've allowed that you now wish you'd said no to?"
- 3
"How comfortable are you setting boundaries with me?"
- 4
"What does 'no' feel like for you to say?"
- 5
"What does 'no' feel like for you to hear?"
- 6
"Is there a boundary in our relationship you want to revisit?"
- 7
"What's a boundary that exists in your life that others might not expect?"
- 8
"What do you think healthy boundaries between partners look like?"
- 9
"Where do you think we have good boundaries in our relationship?"
- 10
"Where do you think we need clearer ones?"
- 11
"What's something you wish I'd said no to more?"
- 12
"What makes a boundary feel like love rather than rejection?"
- 13
"What's the difference between a boundary and a wall for you?"
- 14
"What's a boundary you've set that you're proud of?"
- 15
"How do you feel about my boundaries?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.