15 questions about
family traditions
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's a family tradition from your childhood that you love?"
- 2
"Is there a tradition from your childhood you want to recreate?"
- 3
"Is there a tradition from your family you're happy to leave behind?"
- 4
"What's a tradition from my family that you've come to love?"
- 5
"What tradition have we created together that you want to keep?"
- 6
"What's a seasonal or holiday tradition that matters most to you?"
- 7
"What do you want our future family traditions to look like?"
- 8
"What's a tradition around food that means something to you?"
- 9
"What's a tradition around celebration — birthdays, anniversaries — that you want?"
- 10
"What's a small daily ritual you'd call a tradition?"
- 11
"What tradition from your culture do you want to honour?"
- 12
"What tradition would you want to start with us?"
- 13
"What does having family traditions mean to you?"
- 14
"What would be lost if our family had no traditions?"
- 15
"What's something that feels sacred in your family calendar?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.