15 questions about
money in our relationship
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"How do you feel about how we handle money together?"
- 2
"Is there something financial between us we need to talk about more openly?"
- 3
"Do you feel financially equal in our relationship?"
- 4
"What's something you wish I understood about how you relate to money?"
- 5
"How do you feel about combined versus separate finances?"
- 6
"What financial decision have we made together that you're proud of?"
- 7
"Is there a financial goal we should be working toward together?"
- 8
"What's something about our financial situation that worries you?"
- 9
"How do you feel about our current spending habits?"
- 10
"What does financial generosity in a relationship look like?"
- 11
"Is there a financial imbalance between us that affects how you feel?"
- 12
"What does financial security feel like for you within our relationship?"
- 13
"How do you feel about debt we have or might take on together?"
- 14
"What financial conversation are we avoiding?"
- 15
"What does sharing money mean to you in a relationship?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.