15 questions about
relationship check-in
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"How are you feeling about us right now, honestly?"
- 2
"Is there something between us that needs addressing?"
- 3
"What's going well that you want to acknowledge?"
- 4
"What's something you need from me that you haven't been getting?"
- 5
"What's something I've done recently that you're grateful for?"
- 6
"What would make you feel more loved this week?"
- 7
"Is there something unsaid between us that's creating distance?"
- 8
"How's your energy for our relationship right now?"
- 9
"What's one thing we could do better together?"
- 10
"What are you most excited about in our relationship right now?"
- 11
"What's something you want to protect in our relationship?"
- 12
"Is there a conversation we keep putting off?"
- 13
"What does a great week between us look like?"
- 14
"What would make you feel more connected to me?"
- 15
"What do you need to tell me right now?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.