15 questions about
trust & honesty
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What does trust mean to you in a relationship — specifically?"
- 2
"Is there something in our relationship that has strained your trust in me?"
- 3
"What does total honesty look like between us?"
- 4
"Have you ever felt you couldn't tell me something? What was it?"
- 5
"What makes you feel most safe to be honest with me?"
- 6
"What makes you feel dismissed in conversation?"
- 7
"Is there something you've been less than fully honest about in our relationship?"
- 8
"What do you need from me to trust me more completely?"
- 9
"How do you feel about white lies in a relationship?"
- 10
"What's the most honest thing you could say to me right now?"
- 11
"What does betrayal of trust look like for you?"
- 12
"How do you rebuild trust once it's been broken?"
- 13
"What do you think I don't fully know about you that you'd be willing to share?"
- 14
"What would make you feel more honest in our relationship?"
- 15
"What's something you know about yourself that's worth being more honest about with me?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.