15 questions about
gratitude & appreciation
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What are you most grateful for in your life right now?"
- 2
"What's something about our relationship you don't express gratitude for enough?"
- 3
"What do you take for granted that, if you lost it, would devastate you?"
- 4
"What's something small in daily life that genuinely makes you happy?"
- 5
"What person in your life are you most grateful for?"
- 6
"What's a hardship that you're actually grateful for now?"
- 7
"What's something you used to wish for that is now your reality?"
- 8
"What moment from the last month are you most grateful for?"
- 9
"What's something about me you're grateful for but don't say often enough?"
- 10
"What does gratitude feel like for you — where do you feel it?"
- 11
"What would you miss most about your life if it changed entirely?"
- 12
"What would you like to be more grateful for?"
- 13
"What's something you've had that most people don't, and do you fully appreciate it?"
- 14
"What practice could we add that would build more appreciation?"
- 15
"What's something in the world — beyond your own life — that you appreciate?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.