15 questions about
spirituality & meaning
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"Do you have a spiritual practice, belief, or framework that guides you?"
- 2
"Where do you find meaning — genuinely?"
- 3
"What makes you feel connected to something larger than yourself?"
- 4
"Do you pray, meditate, or have a practice of stillness?"
- 5
"What do you believe about consciousness and whether it survives death?"
- 6
"What does the sacred mean to you?"
- 7
"Is there a moment in your life that felt like more than coincidence?"
- 8
"What's your relationship with organised religion?"
- 9
"What question about the nature of reality most interests you?"
- 10
"How does your sense of meaning affect how you live day to day?"
- 11
"What makes you feel most alive and connected to the world?"
- 12
"Is there a philosopher, teacher, or thinker whose work has shaped how you see the world?"
- 13
"What do you think the purpose of human life is — if it has one?"
- 14
"What ritual or practice in your life feels most meaningful?"
- 15
"How do you want to live in light of the fact that you will die?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.