15 questions about
personal growth
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's the most significant way you've grown in the last two years?"
- 2
"What are you actively working on in yourself right now?"
- 3
"What's a habit or pattern you're trying to break?"
- 4
"Who in your life challenges you to be better — and how?"
- 5
"What's something you've outgrown that used to define you?"
- 6
"What does growth feel like for you — exciting, uncomfortable, or both?"
- 7
"What's a belief about yourself you've had to revise?"
- 8
"What do you want to be truer of yourself in five years?"
- 9
"What's the hardest thing you've ever worked on about yourself?"
- 10
"Is there something you resist growing through even though you know you should?"
- 11
"What's your biggest growing edge right now?"
- 12
"What does accountability mean to you — can you hold yourself accountable?"
- 13
"What's something you want to develop that you haven't started yet?"
- 14
"Who would you be if you removed your biggest limitation?"
- 15
"What book, person, or experience has most contributed to who you're becoming?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.