15 questions about
change & transitions
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"How do you handle major change — with excitement, resistance, or something else?"
- 2
"What's the biggest transition of your life so far?"
- 3
"Is there a change coming that you're anxious about?"
- 4
"What's a change you've been avoiding that you know you need to make?"
- 5
"How do you handle uncertainty — specifically?"
- 6
"What has a difficult transition taught you about yourself?"
- 7
"What role do you want me to play when you're going through something big?"
- 8
"What's changed about you most dramatically in the last five years?"
- 9
"Is there a version of your life that you've had to let go of?"
- 10
"How do you feel about change in our relationship specifically?"
- 11
"What's something you want to change about your life in the next twelve months?"
- 12
"What does reinvention mean to you — exciting or frightening?"
- 13
"What's a transition you're in the middle of right now?"
- 14
"What would you want to say to yourself at the other side of your biggest current change?"
- 15
"How much stability do you need, and are you getting it?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.