Growth & Change

Couples Questions:
Learning & Curiosity

A curious mind is one of the most attractive things in a person. These questions explore what lights you up and what you want to know.

💬 15 questions♥ For couples✔ Take turns answering✔ No wrong answers
📵Put the phones away
🔄Take turns answering
👂Listen without judgement
📱Log your answers in the app

15 questions about
learning & curiosity

Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.

  1. 1

    "What are you most curious about right now?"

  2. 2

    "What's the last thing you genuinely got lost in learning about?"

  3. 3

    "What's a subject you wish you knew more about?"

  4. 4

    "What's the best thing you've learned in the past year?"

  5. 5

    "How do you learn best — reading, doing, listening, watching?"

  6. 6

    "What's a question that occupies your mind that you don't have an answer to?"

  7. 7

    "What subject would you study if you went back to school?"

  8. 8

    "What's a skill you want to learn?"

  9. 9

    "What do you find fascinating that most people overlook?"

  10. 10

    "What's something I've taught you that surprised you?"

  11. 11

    "What does intellectual curiosity feel like for you?"

  12. 12

    "What topic can you go down a rabbit hole on?"

  13. 13

    "What does a stimulating conversation leave you feeling?"

  14. 14

    "What's the most interesting person you've ever talked to and why?"

  15. 15

    "What question about the world most occupies you?"

How to use these
conversation starters

🍷

Over dinner

Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.

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On a long drive

No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.

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Before sleep

One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.

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On a walk

Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.

Sunday morning

Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.

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In the app

Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.

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going every day.

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💬 Daily prompts
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