15 questions about
support & being there
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What does real support look like to you when you're struggling?"
- 2
"What do I do when I try to support you that misses the mark?"
- 3
"What do I do when I support you that genuinely helps?"
- 4
"Do you tend to ask for help or try to handle things alone?"
- 5
"What's something you've been carrying that I could take some of?"
- 6
"When you're having a hard day, what do you most need from me?"
- 7
"What's the difference between helpful and hovering for you?"
- 8
"Is there something you've needed support with that you haven't asked for?"
- 9
"What does being in your corner mean to you?"
- 10
"What's the most supported you've ever felt in our relationship?"
- 11
"What are you currently carrying that I should know about?"
- 12
"Is there something going on in your life right now that you'd like more support with?"
- 13
"What do you wish I'd noticed and offered support for without you having to ask?"
- 14
"What does being a supportive partner mean to you?"
- 15
"What's something you've supported me through that you're proud of?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.