15 questions about
what i need from you
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What do you most need from me right now that you haven't asked for?"
- 2
"What's something I used to do that you'd love me to start again?"
- 3
"What does the best version of my support look like for you?"
- 4
"Is there something about the way I love you that I could improve?"
- 5
"What would make you feel more cherished this week?"
- 6
"What do you need more of — time, space, touch, words, help?"
- 7
"Is there something I do that gets in the way of you feeling loved?"
- 8
"What's something you want to ask me for that feels vulnerable?"
- 9
"What would it look like if I showed up at my very best for you?"
- 10
"What do you need from me in difficult times that's different from what I give?"
- 11
"What's a way of being loved that you haven't experienced enough?"
- 12
"Is there a kind of support I offer that misses what you actually need?"
- 13
"What would feel like being truly taken care of by me?"
- 14
"What's something you wish I'd do without being asked?"
- 15
"If you could ask me for one thing, what would it be?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.