15 questions about
joy & delight
Pick one and start there. You don't have to go in order.
- 1
"What's the last thing that made you feel genuine joy?"
- 2
"What fills you with delight that you rarely get to say?"
- 3
"What's something that brings you childlike happiness?"
- 4
"What do you love so much it's almost embarrassing?"
- 5
"What makes you light up in a way I've noticed?"
- 6
"What experience gives you joy that surprises you?"
- 7
"When do you feel most fully alive?"
- 8
"What's something joyful you'd like us to do together?"
- 9
"What's a simple pleasure that always delivers?"
- 10
"What makes you laugh from your stomach?"
- 11
"What's something in nature that gives you pure joy?"
- 12
"What music makes you want to move?"
- 13
"What kind of beauty stops you in your tracks?"
- 14
"What does joy feel like different from happiness?"
- 15
"What's the most joyful moment you can remember?"
How to use these
conversation starters
Over dinner
Pick one question at the start of the meal. Let the conversation lead where it wants.
On a long drive
No eye contact makes some questions easier. Road trips are perfect for depth.
Before sleep
One question each before the lights go out. This becomes a ritual you'll both love.
On a walk
Walking side by side reduces pressure. The movement helps the conversation flow.
Sunday morning
Slow morning, no agenda. Phones down. One question over coffee.
In the app
Log your answers in Relationship App: Love Story. Look back on them together.
Keep the conversation
going every day.
Daily prompts, mood check-ins, love notes, and a shared memory of every conversation you have together.